Hello lovelies,

It feels so good to be back again blogging. I have missed you guys and I’m very sure you guys missed me too. Quite a long break though; how are you guys doing? hope great. Today I will be sharing with you guys some of my thoughts while away, and one of them is ‘BECOMING’. Becoming God’s best version of me and also you. You can become any good thing the Lord wants you to be if you’ll listen to Him and follow the Spirit.

I am a great believer in setting goals. The act of writing them down and putting them where I can see them, can make the difference between success and failure. Most people are so scared of becoming someone new, scared to stand on their own, scared of what people will say or think of them, and scared of the society. Low self-esteem causes people to believe that they have so little worth that their response does not matter.

Never worry alone. When anxiety grabs your mind, it is self-perpetuating. Worrisome thoughts reproduce faster than rabbits, so one of the most powerful ways to stop the spiral of worry is simply to disclose your worry to God, The simple act of reassurance from God becomes a tool of the Spirit to cast out fear — because peace and fear are both contagious. We tend to be preoccupied by our problems when we have a heightened sense of vulnerability and a diminished sense of power. Today, see each problem as an invitation to prayer.

Too often, people who need the cheers the most get them the least. Every day, everyone you know faces life with eternity on the line, and life has a way of beating people down. Every life needs a cheering section. Every life needs a shoulder to lean on once in a while. Every life needs a prayer to lift them up to God. Every life needs a huger to wrap some arms around them sometimes. Every life needs to hear a voice saying, “Don’t give up”. You have been created by God as a unique person, his plan to grow you will not look the same as his plan to grow anyone else. What would grow an orchid would drown a cactus.

Let go of the person that you don’t want to be.  Stop chasing after the versions of yourself that will only interfere with you becoming the person God intends you to be.  Let go of pretense, guilt and pleasing people rather than pleasing God alone. No matter how hard you may try, you can’t become the person God wants you to be through your own efforts. The only way to do so is to live with God’s Spirit flowing through you like a river of living water that makes you and those you relate to flourish. Rather than trying harder to become a better person – which will be in vain, since you can’t achieve spiritual growth through your own efforts – try a softer approach to life. Relax and focus on God’s grace that’s always available to you.

Genuine brokenness pleases God more than pretend spirituality. What matters most to God isn’t what you do; it’s who you are. So pursuing certain accomplishments in life isn’t nearly as important as becoming the person God created you to be. Use your time and energy well. Focus on living up to your potentials, growing into the person you really want to be – someone who’s free to live with love and joy. Even you can’t tell yourself how to change, because you didn’t create you. To love someone is to desire and work toward their becoming the best version of themselves. The one person in all the universe who can do this perfectly for you is God. He has no other agenda. He has no unmet needs he is hoping you can work with him, And he knows what the best version of you looks like. He delighted in the idea of it, and He is already working on it. The apostle Paul said, “We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him.” Which means God is at work every moment to help you become the very best version of you.

If you improve the way you think, you’ll improve your whole life, since your thoughts lead to your attitudes and actions and shape who you are as a person. God never grows two people the same way. God is a hand-craftier, not a mass-producer. The most important task of your life is not what you do, but who you become. Learn to depend on God always no matter what you are going through. Self-improvement is no more God’s plan than self-salvation. God’s plan is not just for us to be saved by grace, it is for us to live by grace. God Is Closer Than You Think. Stay focus always.

This is me becoming what God wants me to be. Will love to hear from you too and also to share your thoughts on this topic with me by commenting below. thanks so much for reading. God bless you!



NEW YEAR: Black and White


Hello lovelies;

Happy new year guys, hope this year answers to every of our heart desires. yes this is my first post for this year 2017. So today’s post is all about getting motivated and also how i rock my black and white outfit, sometimes you need to motivate yourself by yourself. I have decided that 2017 is going to be a great year for me and with the help of God, definitely all things will work out for my good. People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents. Goals are not only absolutely necessary to motivate us. They are essential to really keep us alive. The only way to get people to like working hard is to motivate them. Today, people must understand why they’re working hard. Every individual in an organization is motivated by something different. looking for perfection is the only to motivate yourself.

Back to today’s outfit, this is one of my holiday shoot; So i decided to pair black and white,to get that classy and cool look, i remember when the call for this holiday trip came up i was super excited because i have always wanted to have a better holiday shoot, and yes like the saying goes; ‘opportunity comes but once’ lol. i really enjoyed my stay in COCO BEACH (my holiday destination), most especially the food because i love food, but seriously who doesn’t like to eat, everyone love food but just that some humans are born foodie, and still the fat refuses to come! hehehe. As we all know black and white goes with literally every thing and matches any outfit you want to pull out. Here is just one of the ways to rock that black and white outfit in your wardrobe.




Looking for something classic, ladylike, sexy and glamour? Well, you better check out black and white outfit ideas and are great for ladies at any ages. As you know, combination of black and white is a classical color scheme for work outfit. Some people think that black and white combination is quite boring. Well, once you look through these creations I am pretty sure you will find here sexy, edgy and chic designs to try on at work or to any event.





Black and White outfits are one of  my favorites. I find them easiest to style. And they work for pretty much every occasion, and this is just one of the many ways you can rock it. Hope you guys like how i wore my  black and white outfit; and please guys don’t forget to like, share and also comments so i can also know how gorgeous you will rock yours. love from me to you.

Outfit Details:

Pants: H&M

Top: Polo

Jacket: Gift from my dad

Shoe: Gibi Collections

Belt: Marni



Hello guys, yes is Christmas season and also the year is coming to an end, hope you all are having fun and doing great. so today’s post is all about happiness, to be happy, to feel happy and also to always make sure that you don’t allow anything to steal your joy.

Christmas is the spirit of giving without a thought of getting. It is happiness because we see joy in people. It is forgetting self and finding time for others. It is discarding the meaningless and stressing the true values.


These are old pictures,  was shot last year December during the Christmas season and you know i just have to post it now even though is old but still gold. i can remember shooting these pictures with one of my friend then and was just happy simply because is Christmas period and to think of everything, getting a nice location for the shoot.

Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, positive vibe, peace… To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices – today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it. Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Yes i know some days are just bad days, that’s all. You have to experience sadness to know happiness, and I remind myself that not every day is going to be a good day, that’s just the way it is, but i always try to make something positive out of every situation.



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The best way to pay for a lovely moment is to enjoy it. You just have to take every moment serious and make a good memory out of it. Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you’re doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you, no never! You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of; And  you will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life, just as simple as that. You need to understand that no matter how hurt you are or how bad people make you feel, you just have to laugh it out, There’s nothing like deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reasons. Yes i have been through a lot  in 2016, I have seen both the good and the bad but i can’t let all that get over me instead i make something great out of that. you just have to promise yourself to be happy always. 

Promise Yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind, to talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet, to make all your friends feel that there is something in them to look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true, To think only the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best, To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own, To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future, To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile, To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble, To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words but great deeds. To live in faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are true to the best that is in you.

Yes lovelies, happiness is everything needed this season and also to be thankful to GOD for His protections throughout the month of January to December and of course to a happy 2017. let me know your own candid opinion on happiness and also what makes you happy by dropping the comments below lets relate. And make  sure you get someone a gift this Christmas.



Hello my beautiful people;

Yes today’s post is for all my fashion lovers. Count down to one of the biggest fashion show in South South organized by one of the best team VIBRANT DYNASTY, and is taking place in Port Harcout city Nigeria;  Are you a model, or a fashion designer, this show is for you. This is an exhibition where you will see spectacular and unique models giving you the very best of fashion and creativity. Different fashion designers will be showcasing their designs with beautiful, bold, elegant, and confidence models rocking the runway.

What is creacis Piste, this simply means creative runway in English and is a fashion runway show aimed at harnessing the creativity of persons both young and old, and also creating a network of creative persons who have used their creativity to affect the community positively.

If you are in Port Harcourt, you really don’t want to miss out and also distance can’t be a barrier for those of us outside Port Harcourt as far as you are in Nigeria; Come and be mind blown.




This will be happening this December, don’t come alone, come with someone as you don’t want to experience this amazing exhibition alone. tickets are on sales so get yours at Radio Rivers at degema street Port Harcourt, Emerald hotel, Autograph mall Gra 2, and Zenders collections.
Date: 18 Dec 2016
Red Carpet: 5:00 pm
Main event: 6:00 pm



photogrid_1479898729210photogrid_1478259073217-1Hello lovelies,

Hope you had a beautiful week and you are now ready for your weekend, yes is December and Christmas is fast approaching. last month was really stressful for me because i was busy with school exams, and also trying to write a financial licence exam so i can be your future financial adviser  too lol! i was merely a shadow of myself last month,but thank God i made it.



So today’s post is all about me and my jumpsuit. I’m a fan of jumpsuits! Even though I don’t wear them often, I’ve always like how fancy they look and how this one piece can make a complete outfit. As a dress. Personally, like with most of my clothing, I opt for the more classic and elegant pieces. I do love a color, print, and different textures. And yes before i forget guys i made this Ankara crop top myself. I’m not going to talk too much today but will be revealing three other ways you can also style your jumpsuit. I know I’m not alone when wondering how to wear a jumpsuit. They can be a little intimidating and if not worn correctly can look sloppy or make you look shorter or wider than you are.








A rather classic yet timeless look, by now you should know i like anything classy and smart. the thing about jumpsuit is that they don’t go out of fashion so they are pretty easy to play around with, I wore mine with a lemon color shoe and a nice Ankara crop top, a major confidence booster. Paired together this is the result.



Finding a jumpsuit that fits your body perfectly is key to looking polished and put together. Don’t wear anything too tight or too loose.

If you wear a jumpsuit that’s too tight, you might give off that cat-women vibe, and you might feel uncomfortable. If you wear a jumpsuit that is too loose, you will completely lose your figure, and the jumpsuit will overwhelm your body.


A lot of jumpsuits have either a cloth belt or you can easily add your belt to define your waist. Cinching your jumpsuit at the waist is a great way to add some femininity to the look and give you that curvy look.


If you’re a jumpsuit virgin ease into it and wear a solid black or white jumpsuit. If you’re daring, wear a colored solid.

But Black is always a slimming choice!

Once you feel comfortable in a black or white or colored jumpsuit, experiment by adding some pattern or splashes of color.

A jumpsuit can easily be dressed up for a formal event. If the style of the jumpsuit is appropriate, then all you have to do is accessorize it to fit the party.

The blue jumpsuit I’m wearing in this outfit is a classy feminine jumpsuit. Since it’s more classy in the style and not trashy, I could easily dress it up with heels.

I hope you guys  like it, let me what you think and how you will style your own jumpsuit by drooping your comments below lets connect.



Hello guys, how are we today? hope great? So today i decided to give it the high street style but not like the gangster look you know, this time is more like the classy woman. there is something about these pictures, i have to beg a friend of mine to let me use his phone’s camera and at first it wasn’t easy to get a good shot but at the end, i will say he did a nice job because this is a phone shot.

There is something about city streets that’s to love and especially when they are not busy! I don’t know whether it’s the towering buildings, the flowers, the people walking quietly, and amazing skylines that make you feel like you are right at the center of it all.


As I strolled through the streets in this ensemble, I felt all sorts of powerful! this outfit is just one of those basic classy woman. More like a strong woman, Let’s say you’re walking down the street and you notice someone giving you what you think is a judgmental look. It might have just been a quick glance at your shoes or your dress etc; This outfit shows that strong and confident lady who is fierce.

Material trousers are among my Favorite pieces in my closet. I like how versatile they are and how they can bring out a feminine side yet powerful, a rather interesting contrast! Ever wore a piece and felt like ‘BOLD AND BEAUTIFUL’? Then that’s how I felt in this outfit. I paired it with milk colored kiss heels, a black bag, a milk beaded belt and a mixed colored print shirt to brighten up the look. You can also rock it with something different, it depends on what you have on your closet.


I hope you guys like it. please my beautiful people, let me know what you guys think about this outfit by dropping your comments below. thanks for all the love you guys have been showing to me; Appreciated!


Pants: h&m

Shoes: Payless

Shirt: Dolce Vita

Bag: Isabella Fiore

Belt: Mr price

LIEBSTER AWARD: I got nominated!

liebster award

The Liebster Award is a fun way to recognize and promote new up and coming blogs of a good standard and the rules are pretty simple;


  1. Write a post to show your award
  2. Acknowledge the blogger who nominated you
  3. Give a brief story of why you started blogging
  4. Give advice to your fellow bloggers
  5. Nominate a few bloggers for the award
  6. Leave a comment to let the nominated bloggers know about the award


  1. So I got nominated for the Liebster award by my new lover thanks so much dear.


I have always loved writing, talking to people and also take pictures of myself, anytime you see  me posting anything on social network, you will see me doing the whole writing thing; Then one day a friend of mine introduced me into blogging, so i decided to give it a try and am loving it. I think blogging is a way of expressing myself to people, It’s a great way of meeting new people, globally or locally.  Blogging helps to spread ideas and connections beyond geographical boundaries. You can connect with your friends, family or fans to let them know what you think about certain issues. You can ask them about their opinion or share important happening in their lives.


My advice to my fellow bloggers will be, never stop blogging, never stop expressing yourself because you don’t know who is been inspired by your blog, Blogging helps bringing in together the people who think alike. When you blog on a certain topic. Sometime they help you to take your thoughts forward. Through blogs a lot of idea sharing takes place, that couldn’t have been possible otherwise. And always stay positive and be more active on your blog.